Known truth

Life is an oxymoron. We can’t hold the things too close and at the same time we can’t ignore them. Oscillating along the sides like a wobbly legged fella trying to walk on a random path.   
                                                                           

One can’t escape from the feeling of longings which binds us like an immortal debt; at the same instant hoping for the bright future. Being in this state will definitely not kill us physically but sucks out all the energetic juice out from us by leaving us in the state worse than a corpse.

                                                                              

Let us perceive this in another dimension by using poor other chemicals and hormones in our body.

Life is all about ‘choices’. We have paths with certainty in them for everything, be it good or bad. The thing we gotta do is to choose what we want by looking beyond the edge of the path with the help our experience, society, more or less maturity and the most importantly common sense which we tend to forget where it is needed utmost.

If your choices is not working out and if the time doesn’t support you to change your choice then figure out how to make it perfect. Our life depends on what we choose, if you choose worst then you will definitely end up in the deepest shit of this earth.

The main thing is it lies within you; you are your own future.

It always depends on how to take it and make it.

Women in Governance

 From our myths we observed that, we got the element of strategy from the goddess Athena. She used to play a major role in the decisions involving high virtue of strategy.

Let us travel to the era of rock age where the humans used to depend on others only for their appetite. In the initial stages female’s role is as same as Athena in Olympus. But the difference occurs in the later days was, the way we used to survive i.e. when the living being completely depends on strength criterion, an standing applause to the creator of the human cell, He showed a difference in the hormones of men and women. Of course along with the strategy, male species acquired this strategy views by inducing from the female ones and practiced quite efficiently. Now the balance sheet showed more inclination towards male species and stated them as predominant beings.

Yes, he succeeded, adapted to nature’s purpose and upgraded. Kingdoms established, great walls portioned the regions with the supreme chair for the supreme leader, not to mention of course it is the male one. This continues for several decades or even centuries.

Until the entry of beautiful era of 10^th century or even later, several forms or extremes of human morality along with immorality, patience along with impatience oozed out.

Let us begin at the child marriages, sati which was the immortal marks of the inhuman behaviour towards female species. Even though we are aware of facts but we were bound to words such as culture, tradition, monarchy, supremacy.

Not all but some people recognized that both genders are born with same idea of progressive development of future. After some revolutionary decisions and movements we tried our extent to abolish the way ‘we’ in other words society used to treat women. The time where females are bound only to fire place to cook the food and to dilute the male desire and to produce an offspring which is a male of course, who continues his father’s legacy, the time where the females are restricted in the decision room.

Yes, both are born same, but in the course of time her cells remained inactive, of course they are from Venus but need an extreme trigger to active again.

Like a small drop of water before a heavy rain, some raised and stood against all odds of society by fighting for the equal rights to the female along with males.

The way they changed is very rapid now every girl is aware of the society requirements, most of the girls are allowed to prefer higher education and providing us that ‘she’ can compete with ‘Him’. Our Indian constitution supported and encouraged them in every way possible. 33% reservations and some fees waivers to their applications even to name some which are encouraging more participation of women.

Yes they have acquired everything in order to compete with us. Recent statistics shows that we Indians ranked 28^th in the presence of women directors by climbing two positions when compared to previous year. In India we have Chanda Kochar MD and CEO of ICICI Bank, Indra Nooyi CEO of PepsiCo, who are leading the companies towards success and increasing the standards of India and are standing by keeping their head high among the other nations.

Today’s women are socializing very fast when compared to the previous decades. But still we have many walls which are camouflaged by the bonds of human relations. These include being a daughter, being a wife, being a mother to children, being a daughter in law.

All these bonds bind our Indian women to not being socialized. Some brave women climbed those walls and efficiently managing all her responsibilities be it a personal or professional.

As a developing economy we are finding a number of women who are climbing the professional ladders even in the presence of high forces which are not allowing them to do so, but the fact is that as 1.4bn populated country occupying more than half a billion as females, the present number is not meeting a perfect sense.

Indian parenting is the main reason for this situation where we are now. I didn’t intend to say that it not quite an appreciable one, but I confess that it must change in accordance with the society.

   

   

Freelance Journalism

Journalism, the word which rewrites the histories by showing the mirror image of the truth and let society to understand the weight. The only power which controls society and the field where one shows due respect and at the same time extreme fear while committing crimes. One fears that we have some responsibility to answer the society by controlling their unethical means while acquiring power. Journalism is media which reminds us that we have a society to deal with and to save it when needed.

But the recent scenarios are proving that the journalist’s hands glued with impurity. By considering that I am not blaming them but realising the fact that the society itself is not opposing the process of gluing the impurity to journalism people.

In order to prove that this revolution called Journalism is born to show the society’s real face but not a stuffed one which perfectly catches only one group by not being diplomatic, one must be a freelancer.

The journalist must be given complete and utter freedom in expressing what the actual fact is by avoiding his personal or unethical opinions.

This freelancing helps him to not to restrict on single dimension and let him explore other dimensions which play a vital role in any issue. This keeps the journalist to travel on fact rather than the stuffed lies.

Yet another Valentine Day

A two decade valentine day, you have been visiting me from my first cry, from my visit after a 9 month fight from my mother’s womb and you will be with me until my last cry, last days of this physical homosepian form.

You have been trying to disappoint me all these 20 years on this special day called feb 14^th, but you have not succeeded.

I am celebrating this entire Valentine’s Day without a valentine yet joyfully.

I am not aware of this story of cupid and Psyche, or this special day of love, but I am aware of myself and society deeds.

On this very day, you have tried lot of spells on me:

You have tried the spell of Care: I have my mom who comes along with me in the ugliest situations also.

You have tried the spell of Possessiveness: I have my sister to remind me of every little thing.

You have tried the spell of Fear: I have my father to kick its butt

You have tried the spell of reality: I have a dream to chase

You have tried the spell of Greed: I have a passion to achieve

You have tried the spell of Illusion: I have my friends to guide me

You have tried the spell of Responsibility: I have a society to deal with.

You have tried everything to make me feel regret of what i don’t have, but I have everything I need everything which reminds me of something.

I have taken the triumph in all your spells, but I choose the path of defeat in one thing which intern gives everything.

The Completeness:

I, the one for whom I need to live for, is not complete without you.

You pave path to my completeness. You add an essence for the life which is magical and mystical.

I, which is a mixture of certain feelings and bonds. That I is not complete without your presence. You are the only one pulling away from my completeness. I, as a divine soul is chasing for your presence subconsciously to attain completeness.

A completeness which brings the rightful meaning to my whole existence of this physical form in this universe.

Even though I am aware of the necessary facts, still we are living with the hope that one day we will find that, and that day is not far. This hope is the elixir of our life, which keeps on pushing us to do things without being disturbed.